We all aim to find that one person who we want to spend the rest of our lives with. But in the modern world, it can be a lot harder than it looks. In fact, endless scrolling through Tinder and chatting to guys can take its toll. And then once a relationship finishes, the heartbreak is the worst. In fact, you might feel like you will never meet someone you will fall in love with. Therefore, when you do meet a guy, you are not sure whether it could be the real deal. Here are some ways to know that love is on the horizon with this new chap.
Get to know them on a deeper level
Although there might be an attraction between the two of you, you need to get to know their personality too. After all, once those initial butterflies have passed, you need to be able to spend time together. You don’t want to be stuck dating someone who you have nothing in common with. And besides their looks, you don’t even like them as a person! Therefore, to know whether you could fall in love with this guy, spend time with them to get to know the real them. Ask them about their past and delve deeper to find out if there is a connection and see if you agree on the important issues of faith and family. Hopefully, they will ask you questions too, so that they get to know the real you! Once you have really got to know them as a person, you can decide whether you see any kind of future with this guy!
Go with your gut when it comes to your feelings
When you are in a new relationship, it’s easy to think about whether you could see this going the long-term. After all, you don’t want to waste your time on a dalliance which will end badly. And while some people opt for a horoscope to tell them if they have found the one, this should only be in fun and games. The best person to tell you whether you can see love in the future is yourself, and you will know the most clearly when you pray about this and ask God to help you know. After all, you should be listening to your gut when it comes to your feelings for the new guy, because often times this is the way God speaks to us. If you are already feeling doubts, there might be a good reason for them. You might know deep down that this guy isn’t right for you. On the other hand, if you are feeling positive about the relationship, you should see where this love takes you. Trust God to give you an answer and be willing to receive what He reveals.
Give the relationship a chance
It’s so easy to give up on a relationship before it’s even begun. After all, you might let your insecurities and fears overwhelm you. And then you might miss out on the real deal. Therefore, to ensure you get to know whether this guy is the one, you need to take a chance on the relationship. Push your fears aside and get to know this guy. After all, the worst thing that could happen is it ends before it gets started. But at least you know you would have given the relationship a good shot!
And remember to let your new guy spend some time with your friends and family. It’s always good to see how they act around your nearest and dearest and hearing their opinions on him can be huge. Sometimes outsiders that know you best have insight that is real and valuable. After all, if it’s going to be a long-term thing, they need to get on well with your family and friends!